Just What the Doctor Ordered

[box type="shadow" align="aligncenter" ]Disclosure: I was provided with products in order to facilitate this review though my love of the Doc goes way back (to 9 months).[/box] Did you hear Dr. Brown's has a whole line of products for feeding solids now?

I am SO EXCITED.

See us and the Doc go way back- 9 months to be exact.

I was being the neurotic first-time mom everyone knew I would be and started having the bottle conversation with my friends who are already moms relatively early in the pregnancy. After talking to them and some independent research we decided to try Dr. Brown’s bottles. We put them on the gift registry for the baby shower and got a few sets of Dr. Brown's bottles and another set from a different brand. I swear by these bottles! The only time my son had issues with gas/reflux, was when he had been drinking out of a non-Dr. Brown's bottle. Although there are a few parts to keep clean, it’s worth it and made easier when I use a Dr. Brown’s Microwave Sterilizer Bag. The containers are also great for storing breast milk/formula.

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Now that my son is experimenting with solids I love being able to give him a bowl of cheerios or a plate with apple slices or put milk in his sippy cup and know that he is using products engineered specifically for him.

Dr. Brown's has two sippy cups to choose from, one with a soft mouth piece that helps with the bottle to cup transition. The second cup is what I call the big boy cup. It does not have a soft tip. Both cups have a piece that you can remove that gives the cup(s) handles, perfect for chubby little hands and fingers. My son loves to throw his but the durable plastic used can withstand even my little monster’s “I’m done” throws.

The bowls, plates and utensils are perfect for him to start feeding himself. The partitioned plates are perfect for helping me foster the importance of nutrition. He loves when I put different colors in the partitions and I love that some of those colors are veggies. The bowls are the perfect size for just about anything you may want to feed your baby. I really like the colors/designs and have felt very comfortable washing all in the dishwasher. I see myself continuing to build on his Dr. Brown's collection.

Disclosure: I was provided with products in order to facilitate this review. All love towards Dr. Brown's products is purely my own.

Winner, Winner Chicken Dinner

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Yery's back! Today she's telling us about her aunt and some unsolicited advice. Tell me this has never happened to you in your parenting career...

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So the other day I called to talk to one of my aunts. Of course the majority of the conversation was about my boy, how big and beautiful and smart he is. How well I dress him and how happy/smiley he seems to always be. The conversation turned to “what are you feeding him”. I told her he is still getting most of his nutrients from breast milk but has started solids and is doing well with them. She asked what kind of solids he’s having so I told her he’s had green beans, sweet peas, zucchini, Sweet potatoes, Avocado, Pear Sauce, Apple Sauce, Bananas and rice cereal every once in a while.

Before I could finish my statement, which included a few items I am going to try with him soon, she interrupted to ask how old he is again. I reminded her that he’s 6 months old. She then proceeded to tell me that she knows I don’t know too much about babies, since he’s my first, but that I need to mix chicken in with his vegetables and give him beans.

I knew I would come to this place, the place of wanting to tell someone off for something they’ve said regarding my parenting skills. See, unlike any other job I’ve ever had, this is an on the job training type of situation however, I’m not just blindly winging it. Before I had my son I read any and everything I could get my hands on about all kinds of topics. Since he’s been born there isn’t a day that goes by that I’m not researching, asking my village questions and having constant discussion with my husband about even seemingly small things.

My initial reaction was to go off and tell her “he’s MY CHILD and you should learn to mind your business and stop telling people how to raise their kids”. BREATHE!!!!! I quickly came to my senses and laughed it off instead. NO, I AM NOT GIVING MY 6 MONTH OLD CHICKEN Crazy Lady, but thank you for caring enough to have a BAD OPINION (I guess).

See I've always been an individual. You know, someone who has independent thoughts and doesn't necessarily need anyone to cosign? Yeah, that’s me. While pregnant I started preparing myself for moments like these so that rather than hemming and hawing I could either politely say “thank you” and keep it moving or not comment at all. I honestly didn't think it would be a family member but I guess I wasn't thinking. Family tends to feel entitled to tell you what to do and how to live your life.

Some consider it their JOBS (no salary required) and go around “fixing” lives. Before Iyanla was fixing lives the De Castro family had the market cornered. My family can single handedly solve all the world’s ills. The only reason the Cuban Missile Crisis got out of hand is no one thought to call a member of the De Castro family to ask them what to do. Yes yes y'all, while you are watching Scandal, I grew up with about 12 Olivia Popes, except they no speakie English and somehow know EVERY DAMN THING.

After blowing off some steam with my friends, and some family about my aunt’s audacity, I came to the realization that she thought she was helping and in my family asking for help is not needed, unless you need money or practical advice but it sure feels nice to have people that care in their own way.

I mulled it over, talked to different mommies, including those on my Exclusively Pumping Group and after lots of dialogue decided I would use a very small piece of chicken breast from a homemade chicken soup, along with some of the veggies and broth to make him some baby food. HE LOVED IT!!!!!

It reminded me I don’t know everything, even though I swear I do. It also reminded me to use my village when in need of advice. I mean, had I not asked I probably would've waited till much later to give him chicken out of mostly fear of doing something fatally wrong.

What was some advise you received that you found out later was good advise that you should've followed?